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Men and Women
I walked past a girl on the street. She was speaking to her friend, but really she was speaking to me: “He will always be alone.And he will never be happy.” I had to laugh. It was like the ultimate dagger thrusted into my heart – she had seemingly picked up on the way I Continue reading
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Things That Are on My Mind Today
I don’t know what I’m going to write today, but I will honestly express whatever comes to mind. It’s midday on Sunday as I type. I was up very early today and the Lord led me to pack my tiny bag and go out for a walk while it was still dark. It was raining Continue reading
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The Danger of Feeling You Deserve Better
Hey friends, We are at our best when we mirror the feelings of others. Sometimes, we can feel compelled (because we feel abandoned) to overreact in a situation and lose our sense of self-control. We can feel as though we ‘deserve better’ and do or say something irrational. This is inevitably unhealthy. If someone is Continue reading
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Relationships in our Broken World
The psychologist Alfred Adler spoke about how all healthy relationships are horizontal relationships rather than vertical relationships. Horizontal relationships are equal, but in vertical relationships one person has power over the other. I have been considering this view in respect of my own singleness and my hesitation about entering into a relationship with a woman. Continue reading
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When a person says, ‘I’m bored’, what do they really mean?
For many years now I have felt an aversion to ever describing myself as ‘bored’. For the purpose of helping myself to understand why this is, I decided to write this blog post looking in depth at what the phenomenon of boredom is. Continue reading
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My name is Steven Nicholas Colborne.
I’m a philosopher and author living in the United Kingdom. On this blog, I write about matters of philosophy and religion and share a variety of personal articles.
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