Then his mother and his brothers came to him, but they could not reach him because of the crowd. And he was told, “Your mother and your brothers are standing outside, desiring to see you.” But he answered them, “My mother and my brothers are those who hear the word of God and do it.”
The teaching of Jesus, from the Gospel according to Luke.
You don’t owe your family anything, but you owe God everything. In all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:6).